Their is no death, only a change of worlds.
-Chief Seattle
People request mediumship readings for lots of reasons. Even if you’re doing it out of curiosity or just for fun, the experience may have profound effects on you and it’s important to recognize that possibility. If you are specifically interested in a mediumship reading to address grief, deliberation similar to that related to any new treatment option is required, then we recommend a discussion with your mental health professional (MHP) prior.
No matter your reason, you can have the best possible reading by having realistic expectations. We believe that a mediumship reading involves at least three people: the medium, the requestor, and the departed. In order for it to go well, all three of those people need to be a good fit and be willing participants. The requestor(s) can optimize the reading process by following some simple do’s and don’ts as detailed below.
Survivor Offerings
Medium Requestor Do(s) and Don’t(s)
Do…
remember that which departed and which items come through are not up to the medium any more than what you hear when answering a ringing phone or see when reading an incoming text is up to you.
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remember that the departed is part of the reading. They may share more than your request and may not supply details requested.
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remember your state of mind can affect the reading, so asking for readings while processing grief can shape the reading.
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understand that not all information that comes through may be well received in that you may not want to hear it. The medium will convey messages both directions as accurately as possible. The departed may offer advice in ways that may have been similar in life and not all of the departed are gentle in words.
Don’t…
rush into a reading before you and the departed are ready. There is no time limit on communication.
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use codes or riddles to prove the medium is communicating with your departed. Those can only prove that the answer exists somewhere in space and time, not that a departed is necessarily providing it.
Don’t…
ask about when you may cross over. This type of question is never given an answer and will not be submitted during the session.
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know that the cost / quality of a reading by a private medium or one that has social followers is neither better or worse. We certify our mediums and they are diligent in providing the best communication. We protect the privacy of our mediums, even if they are otherwise renowned.
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understand that our mediums are professional service providers. With our three attempt policy we do our best to reach the departed for you, and these attempts take effort on our mediums hence the communication is not fully refundable when the attempt fails.
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ask for information about how your departed will communicate with you after the reading.
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understand that it might be difficult to communicate with a medium once someone hasdeparted and that, as a medium, it may be difficult to interpret all the symbols and other sensory information they are seeing, hearing, smelling, feeling, and tasting during a reading.